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Everyone will throw advice at you on “how to attract a man,” but what about asking whether he’s even WORTH attracting in the first place?
No one is doublechecking to make sure that the man you want is worth the investment. It’s assumed that if you want him, you can have him. [Read more…] about What Makes a Man Change (So He Loves You Again)?
If I could wave a magic wand and change just one thing about love…
I would make it easier for women to walk away from men who can’t or don’t love them.
Sometimes I think we’re suckers for punishment. 😉 [Read more…] about 3 Signs He Will Break Your Heart
If you want to shame a woman, just make a critical comment about her libido.
We’re not supposed to want it too much or too little.
If we aren’t sexual enough, we’re frigid. If we’re TOO sexual, we’re sluts. [Read more…] about How Female Desire is Different from Male Desire
When I first started my career over 15 years ago, I was struck by the desperation of the women who wrote to me seeking answers.
They weren’t looking for advice on how to have healthier, happier relationships.
They were desperate for something to do right NOW [Read more…] about Full of Regret for Screwing It Up with Him?
When you are hurting because the man you’re with doesn’t seem to care about you, doesn’t treat you well, is cheating on you, has walked away from you…
The pain is UNBEARABLE.
You’re committed to him. [Read more…] about When Your Relationship is Falling Apart (And You Are, Too)
You know how great it feels when you’re getting checked out by someone you’re attracted to?
His gaze flicks down and back up again. His lips quirk, his eyes soften, there’s this satisfied expression on his face.
Seeing his response to you turns YOU on… [Read more…] about Make Him Feel Desired
As a parent, I often find myself in the position of having to explain boys to my daughter.
She wants to know, “Why are boys so WEIRD??”
Why were the boys who were so nice last year—really good friends, really fun to play with—now suddenly such jerks? [Read more…] about Ask Him This Weirdly Revealing Question
If you are looking for love, and not just a man, there’s one skill that you must master:
The skill of ending things.
95% of the men you meet will NOT be able to create love with you. [Read more…] about 6 Ways to Let Him Down Easy
Here at Your Brilliance, my goal is to help you shine.
My goal is to get you in touch with your light and remove all barriers to it, so that you aren’t afraid anymore.
When we are not in touch with our light, we feel powerless. [Read more…] about Pursue Your Pleasure in Love
In my last post we looked at some simple ways to start increasing your self-knowledge in relationships.
Whether you prefer to talk about zodiac signs or attachment styles, whatever gets you thinking more deeply about who you are and why you act the way you do is going to help. [Read more…] about Why People Marry Who They Marry
