How to Keep the Love Alive

Relationship Advice

6 Ways to Let Him Down Easy

If you are looking for love, and not just a man, there’s one skill that you must master:

The skill of ending things.

95% of the men you meet will NOT be able to create love with you. [Read more…] about 6 Ways to Let Him Down Easy

Pursue Your Pleasure in Love

Here at Your Brilliance, my goal is to help you shine.

My goal is to get you in touch with your light and remove all barriers to it, so that you aren’t afraid anymore.

When we are not in touch with our light, we feel powerless. [Read more…] about Pursue Your Pleasure in Love

Why People Marry Who They Marry

As a woman, do you ever feel sick and tired of the mountain of advice telling you how to be more attractive to men? (Oh, yes, I’m guilty, too!)

Sure, attraction will get you a boyfriend…

But what attraction cannot do is deliver that powerful knowing that you should be MARRIED to this person. [Read more…] about Why People Marry Who They Marry

The #1 Question to Ask in An On-Off Relationship

If there’s one thing that’s worse than a relationship that’s over for good, it’s a relationship that keeps hanging on by a string.

You know it isn’t working. You’re not happy. But you just can’t cut the cord.

Every time you think it’s over, he comes back. [Read more…] about The #1 Question to Ask in An On-Off Relationship

What Your Dream Self Can Teach You about Breaking Up

If we’re going to love, we’ve got to be prepared for love to end.

That is the likely outcome of most relationships.

Although no one falls in love expecting it to fall apart, reality warns us that we must be prepared. [Read more…] about What Your Dream Self Can Teach You about Breaking Up

Don’t Make Each Other Happy – Advice from a Celebrity Couple

In my last post, I explained why it’s a myth to believe that getting the life we’ve always wanted will make us happy at last.

Because of hedonic adaptation, we get used to anything. We get used to the good things in our life, and we get used to the bad. [Read more…] about Don’t Make Each Other Happy – Advice from a Celebrity Couple

Why Men Change Once They’ve Got You

He was so amazing in the beginning.

He brought you flowers, opened the door for you, and surprised you with magical experiences. When you were sick, he brought you treats. When you were upset, he made you feel better. [Read more…] about Why Men Change Once They’ve Got You

Should You Keep Waiting for Him?

I’ve been thinking a lot about a friend of mine recently.

I wrote about her in The Pleasure Principle. I love to her to bits. She is such a great friend, she has such a big heart, and she is the perfect person to have fun with.

And yet she’s still single [Read more…] about Should You Keep Waiting for Him?