In the 20th Century:
A relationship tests your ability to build a life together.
In the 21st Century:
A relationship tests your ability to heal one another. [Read more…] about Where Is Your Love Taking You?
How to Keep the Love Alive
Relationship Advice
Is Your Relationship Built to Weather the Storm?
In the 20th Century:
You know you’re good together if you hardly ever fight.
In the 21st Century:
You know you’re good together if you can handle each other’s emotions. [Read more…] about Is Your Relationship Built to Weather the Storm?
Do Men Really Prefer Respect to Love?
In the 20th Century:
Men prefer respect to love.
In the 21st Century:
You can’t be loved by someone who doesn’t respect you.
It all started with a question: [Read more…] about Do Men Really Prefer Respect to Love?
Is Your Love Life Better When You’re Friends?
In the 20th Century:
The foundation of a strong sexual connection is polarity.
In the 21st Century:
The foundation of a strong sexual connection is friendship.
If you look for advice online on how to create chemistry, you’ll be served up a heaping helping of polarity. [Read more…] about Is Your Love Life Better When You’re Friends?
Say Something or Let It Go?
In the 20th Century:
If you love him, you’ll let it slide.
In the 21st Century:
If you love him, you’ll call him out on it.
Once upon a time, you did what you were told and didn’t complain. [Read more…] about Say Something or Let It Go?
Blaming Yourself for Bad Relationships is SO Last Century
In the 20th Century:
You’re in a bad relationship because you made a bad choice.
In the 21st Century:
You’re in a bad relationship because you’re working through your issues. [Read more…] about Blaming Yourself for Bad Relationships is SO Last Century
Do You Know Everything There Is to Know About Your Sexuality?
In the 20th Century:
Desire is black and white.
In the 21st Century:
Desire is incredibly nuanced.
“Figuring out your sexuality” used to involve [Read more…] about Do You Know Everything There Is to Know About Your Sexuality?
What If You Grow Apart?
In the 20th Century:
You get one love per lifetime.
In the 21st Century:
You love anew in each life stage.
As a kid, I assumed all adults were married. They were old, and all old people came in twos, right? 🤣 [Read more…] about What If You Grow Apart?
The New Purpose of Marriage
In the 20th Century:
The purpose of marriage is to settle down and raise a family.
In the 21st Century:
The purpose of marriage is to live your best life.
In the past, you made most of your major life decisions by your early twenties. [Read more…] about The New Purpose of Marriage
When You Need an Expert On Men, Do THIS
In the 20th Century:
If you don’t understand him, ask an expert on men.
In the 21st Century:
If you don’t understand him, ask him.
It’s one of the craziest things we do… [Read more…] about When You Need an Expert On Men, Do THIS
The Myth of the Easy-Going Girlfriend
In the 20th Century:
Life is full of things you don’t want to do. Get used to it.
In the 21st Century:
You always have options.
When you’re a kid, you don’t have much control over your life. [Read more…] about The Myth of the Easy-Going Girlfriend
The Secret to Keep Him from Straying is NOT…
In the 20th Century:
To keep him, you’ve got to be his fantasy in bed.
In the 21st Century:
To keep him, you’ve got to stay emotionally connected. [Read more…] about The Secret to Keep Him from Straying is NOT…
When Choosing Yourself Means Leaving Him
In the 20th Century:
You failed if you didn’t managed to snag a guy and stay married.
In the 21st Century:
You fail yourself when you stay in a relationship that doesn’t serve you. [Read more…] about When Choosing Yourself Means Leaving Him
Your Priorities, Your Power
In the 20th Century:
He should be your #1 priority.
In the 21st Century:
Your priorities are your choice.
For hundreds of years, a woman’s future depended on her marriage. [Read more…] about Your Priorities, Your Power
Why Men Lose Interest When Women Give Too Much
When your relationship is on the rocks, what do you do?
If you’re like many women, you try even harder.
You make his favorite foods. You plan special outings. You dress nicely. You’re extra affectionate. [Read more…] about Why Men Lose Interest When Women Give Too Much
