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The first time you get physically intimate with someone new is always fraught.
You don’t know if the experience will be good. You don’t know if you’ll like the same things. You don’t know what he’ll think of your body and what you’ll think of his. [Read more…] about What Erotic Massage Taught Shaun Galanos about How Women Want to Be Touched
Hello, my name is Amy, and I date narcissists.
You’d think I’d have figured this out before now.
I mean, I’ve been dating narcissists since my mid-twenties…
And I NEVER knew until recently. [Read more…] about Why I’m Attracted to Narcissists
You’ve spotted a cute guy online. You’ve “liked” him, so he knows you’re interested, but he hasn’t written to you yet. You’re about to move on, assuming he’s just not that into you, when a thought occurs to you…
Should you take a risk and write him a message? [Read more…] about What’s the Best First Online Dating Message Women Can Send? The Short Answer
Should you date him?
He’s only a 79% match, but something about his profile makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside.
Whereas this other guy is a 91% match, but his profile leaves you cold. [Read more…] about The Dirty Little Secret Online Dating Sites Don’t Want You to Know
The short answer is YES!
Ninety-five percent of single men want women to ask for their number. They also wish women would take the initiative when it comes to that first kiss.[1] [Read more…] about Should I Make the First Move on a Guy? The Short Answer
The short answer is as few as possible.
Surprised? Common wisdom says that you should ask a lot of questions on a first date to get to know the other person. [Read more…] about What Are the Best First Date Questions? The Short Answer
Latina girls have a lot on their shoulders.
They’ve got to be good girls, listen to their family, succeed in their careers, hurry up and start a family, and do it all with a sassy smile and sway of the hips.
And when they go out with guys [Read more…] about What Latina Girls Know about Dating with Sujeiry Gonzalez
It’s the risk you take when you put up an online dating profile.
You’re bombarded with messages from guys who don’t seem to be making any effort. You wonder if they’ve even read your profile. All they can say for themselves is “Hi,” “You are sexy,” [Read more…] about It Was Going So Well… Until He Stopped Contacting Me
It’s about time…
Married couples have benefited from the research and wisdom of John and Julie Gottman for decades. But until recently, the Gottmans haven’t had much to offer single people. [Read more…] about Dating to Marry: The Gottman Principles for Singles (Video) with Stacy Hubbard
The short answer is no.
Online dating sites hook us with their promises of sorting through the sea of potential matches for us. All you have to do is fill in a detailed survey, and voilà! The algorithm finds the perfect guy for you. [Read more…] about Can Attraction Be Predicted? The Short Answer
You spend all this effort getting dressed up and going out … only to spend the entire night talking with your girlfriends.
You LOVE your girlfriends, but surely part of the magic of going out is meeting someone new! It’s a waste of an evening if you haven’t talked to a single guy. [Read more…] about How to Get Noticed When You Go Out (Video) with Marni Kinrys
Do men just want blond hair and big boobs?”
Do they hate marriage?”
Why do men get into relationships, when it’s clear that all they want is flings [Read more…] about What Men Want in a Woman (Video) with Clayton Olson
I couldn’t hold anything back from Céline and Kevin.
You may remember Céline from our fantastic interviews with her on breast massage and the power of pleasure. [Read more…] about Amy Tells All in The Love Lab Hot Seat
I got caught up in the tailwind of a discussion the other day…
on whether feminism had ruined dating.
The thrust of the argument was this: [Read more…] about Do Feminists Deserve Love, Too?
I had a friend in college who got so mad…
No one ever saw her as sexy.
They saw her, all right. But they wanted to help her. They wanted to know if she needed anything.
Instead of getting sex, she got sympathy. [Read more…] about Seeing the Sexy in Disability
