In the 19th Century:
Love comes to you.
In the 21st Century:
You go to love.
Up until about a hundred years ago, young women waited at home for love to come calling – quite literally! [Read more…] about What Flappers Can Teach You About Love
I Didn’t Get A Single Rose 🌹😞
In the 20th Century:
Valentine’s Day celebrates couples.
In the 21st Century:
Valentine’s Day celebrates love.
I was a pimply awkward high schooler, and I was dreading the period before lunch. [Read more…] about I Didn’t Get A Single Rose 🌹😞
Just How Much Can You Expect from Him?
In the 20th Century:
Men are strong and silent.
In the 21st Century:
Men are sweet and sensitive.
My grandfather was a John Wayne superfan. [Read more…] about Just How Much Can You Expect from Him?
Find Your Soulmate in a Sea of Men
In the 20th Century:
The dating pool is a marketplace.
In the 21st Century:
The dating pool is an ocean.
Back in the day, dating was a marketplace, and everyone had a value. [Read more…] about Find Your Soulmate in a Sea of Men
The Secret to Keep Him from Straying is NOT…
In the 20th Century:
To keep him, you’ve got to be his fantasy in bed.
In the 21st Century:
To keep him, you’ve got to stay emotionally connected. [Read more…] about The Secret to Keep Him from Straying is NOT…
Guys Aren’t Interested If You Don’t Sleep with Them
In the 20th Century:
Sex is an expression of commitment.
In the 21st Century:
Sex is a test of chemistry.
One of the biggest changes women find when they go back into the dating scene [Read more…] about Guys Aren’t Interested If You Don’t Sleep with Them
Carry Your Baggage Lightly
In the 20th Century:
Avoid anyone with baggage.
In the 21st Century:
We ALL have baggage.
For a long time, the ideal was [Read more…] about Carry Your Baggage Lightly
Your New Dream Man
In the 20th Century:
A catch is handsome, well-heeled, and romantic.
In the 21st Century:
A catch is emotionally intelligent, kind, and responsible. [Read more…] about Your New Dream Man
Boost Your Attractiveness 21st-Century-Style
In the 20th Century:
A woman’s job was to be feminine.
In the 21st Century:
A woman’s job is to be herself.
When I started my career in love advice back in 2005, it seemed so obvious… [Read more…] about Boost Your Attractiveness 21st-Century-Style
Feeling Bad About Your Love Life? Not Any Longer!
In the 20th Century:
A single woman couldn’t get a man to pick her.
In the 21st Century:
A single woman can pick who she wants.
Growing up, I was taught to feel pity for unmarried women. [Read more…] about Feeling Bad About Your Love Life? Not Any Longer!
When Choosing Yourself Means Leaving Him
In the 20th Century:
You failed if you didn’t managed to snag a guy and stay married.
In the 21st Century:
You fail yourself when you stay in a relationship that doesn’t serve you. [Read more…] about When Choosing Yourself Means Leaving Him
Your Priorities, Your Power
In the 20th Century:
He should be your #1 priority.
In the 21st Century:
Your priorities are your choice.
For hundreds of years, a woman’s future depended on her marriage. [Read more…] about Your Priorities, Your Power
Embrace Your Freedom to Love
In the 20th Century:
Finding a husband was every woman’s goal.
In the 21st Century:
Living a life she loves is every woman’s goal.
Spare a thought for the women who came before us. [Read more…] about Embrace Your Freedom to Love
Love Like It’s 2024
Goal: The romantic relationship of your dreams
Obstacle: HIM!
Solution: Change him
That’s been the formula for hundreds of years. [Read more…] about Love Like It’s 2024
Why Men Lose Interest When Women Give Too Much
When your relationship is on the rocks, what do you do?
If you’re like many women, you try even harder.
You make his favorite foods. You plan special outings. You dress nicely. You’re extra affectionate. [Read more…] about Why Men Lose Interest When Women Give Too Much
