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When you center your pleasure, magical things happen.
I don’t know about you, but I wasn’t raised to consider my own pleasure. I was taught that my job was to please others. If I did a good job, I’d get approved of. [Read more…] about Celebrate Your Pleasure
You know how great it feels when you’re getting checked out by someone you’re attracted to?
His gaze flicks down and back up again. His lips quirk, his eyes soften, there’s this satisfied expression on his face.
Seeing his response to you turns YOU on… [Read more…] about Make Him Feel Desired
Are you tired of being “nice”?
You know what I mean:
“I think you’re nice, but I’m just not attracted to you.”
What does THAT mean? [Read more…] about This Makes Him Desire You
I was listening to my favorite podcast recently when a guest casually mentioned a fact that made my job drop.
In research for her book This Chair Rocks, author and activist Ashton Applewhite discovered that the people with the best sex lives are “not the thinnest, not the youngest [Read more…] about Who’s Got the BEST Love Lives? These Folks
Did you know that there are tons of websites out there selling programs that teach men how to make women want to sleep with them?
Here’s one example: [Read more…] about The Secret World of Men’s Dating Advice (And Why It’s Not So Different From Ours)
As a parent, I often find myself in the position of having to explain boys to my daughter.
She wants to know, “Why are boys so WEIRD??”
Why were the boys who were so nice last year—really good friends, really fun to play with—now suddenly such jerks? [Read more…] about Ask Him This Weirdly Revealing Question
Fifteen years ago, I interviewed a number of men who made their living teaching men how to pick up women.
I listened as they explained the ways they teach men to approach women, to be more compelling, to escalate physically, and how to feel confident as a man. [Read more…] about 3 Reasons Why Guys Feel Insecure
If you are looking for love, and not just a man, there’s one skill that you must master:
The skill of ending things.
95% of the men you meet will NOT be able to create love with you. [Read more…] about 6 Ways to Let Him Down Easy
Where are you in your quest for love?
If I asked you this, nearly all of you would answer by telling me about the man in your life—or absence thereof!
We define where we are in love by [Read more…] about 4 Stages of Your Quest for Love
Here at Your Brilliance, my goal is to help you shine.
My goal is to get you in touch with your light and remove all barriers to it, so that you aren’t afraid anymore.
When we are not in touch with our light, we feel powerless. [Read more…] about Pursue Your Pleasure in Love
Love brings us so much joy and fulfillment…
But it also brings us so much pain.
Men don’t always act the way we want them to. [Read more…] about Make Any Man Want You? THIS is Better
I’ll never forget the last time I tried online dating.
I’d gotten out of a committed relationship, and I was excited to test the waters again.
Because once upon a time, I knew online dating inside and out. [Read more…] about Why Online Dating Is So Much Like High School
One of the biggest things that can hold you back in life and love is not knowing your worth.
Your worth is constant. It doesn’t rise and fall based on what other people think of you. It doesn’t rise and fall based on your successes and failures. It is inherent in who you are, and it is the equal of anyone’s. [Read more…] about 3 Ways to Know Your Worth
Everybody knows what love feels like. Surely!
I used to think that…
Until I went on my own journey of discovering that what I thought was love wasn’t really love at all. [Read more…] about What Does Love Feel Like?
As a woman, do you ever feel sick and tired of the mountain of advice telling you how to be more attractive to men? (Oh, yes, I’m guilty, too!)
Sure, attraction will get you a boyfriend…
But what attraction cannot do is deliver that powerful knowing that you should be MARRIED to this person. [Read more…] about Why People Marry Who They Marry
