This Is Why Men Don’t Treat You Respectfully

Love in the 21st century has a huge obstacle it’s never faced before:

The internet.

Not only are devices replacing in-person communication…
Not only are dating apps reducing real people to commodities…
Not only are AI chatbots stepping in for real intimacy…

But the internet is spreading toxic advice far and wide.

And that toxic advice might just be responsible for some of your struggles with men.

He Was A Prince… Now He’s A Frog

I’ve seen the transformation that comes over men who consume this content online, and it’s heartbreaking.

They become suspicious of women, resentful of social niceties, quick to take offense and attack.

And if you don’t know what’s happening, you might worry it’s you.

You might think you’re doing something wrong when, in reality, he’s been primed to see everything a woman does in a negative light.

I want you to understand what’s going on, so that you can spot the red flags and warning signs.

Even a man you’ve loved for years can get caught up in this content and start to behave differently.

You might notice he’s begun to act like a jerk. He’s rude to you. He’s disrespectful.

You might worry he’s getting tired of the relationship, or falling out of love with you.

When the truth is…

He’s being TOLD to act this way.

Here’s What’s Happening to Him

He’s watching videos and reading online content that tells him the #1 rule of triggering a woman’s attraction is:

Dominate.

Be in control. Be in charge. Tell her what to do. Keep her in her place.

He’s even being told that unless he does this, his partner will lose interest in him, cheat on him, and leave him for a more dominant man.

Many men REALLY believe this.

Even smart men.
Even men who should know better.

Because that content is EVERYWHERE.

And the more you hear something, the more it worms its way into your brain until you begin to believe it.

Single men today are being told that they’ll never meet a woman if they’re a “nice guy.” They’ll never get anywhere if they’re romantic and respectful.

There’s no point in buying a woman drinks or bringing her gifts. She’ll use you and abandon you as soon as a man with higher status comes along.

This passage by men’s coach Lloyd Lester says it all:

She needs to feel comfortable, she needs to feel safe, and most importantly…

She needs to feel like you are SUPERIOR to her…

This inner sense that you are dominant to her is by far the most important feeling you can give her…

… because it’s the key to all the other ones.

It’s the ‘One Ring To Rule Them All’ of the female libido…”

This passage is part of Lester’s pitch for a product he calls “The Dominance Code,” but he’s tapping into something many men really believe.

Relationship skills and emotional intelligence are for wimps. Real men dominate.

You Need To Start Testing Men

So you might think, “What can I do? How can I meet a nice, respectful man when so many men think that being a jerk is the way to a woman’s heart?”

Luckily, there ARE men out there who resist.

They don’t care if they’re condemning themselves to a life of permanent bachelorhood. They’re not going to behave in a way that’s disrespectful and lacks integrity.

You can ask a man questions like:

What’s an example of a man you really respect and look up to? What’s an example of a woman you really respect and look up to?

Do you think gentlemen win or lose in today’s society?

What’s something you’ve learned from a woman?

You can also test a man’s willingness to make a romantic effort—and pay close attention to whether he derives pleasure from seeing you smile.

I can teach you how here.