The ONE THING That Controls Every Man’s Behavior

Men today are being pulled in two opposing directions.

One direction tells them:

Be a man. Don’t let her manipulate you. Tell her what to do.

The other direction tells them:

Real men can be relied on. They stand up for what’s right. They do what’s hard. They defend and take care of their loved ones.

Where does your man sit on that spectrum?

Men Are Feeling The Pull

Regardless of which view your man holds on what it means to be a man, I can promise he’s feeling the tug on either side.

Voices are clamoring at him, telling him he’s “less of a man” if he doesn’t do X.

And he can’t help but listen, because he’s been raised to believe the most important thing he’ll ever do in life is become a man.

Let me say that again.

Because it’s THE key to understanding men today.

Behind everything men do is the need to feel like “The Man.”

Everything else – you, the kids, the home, the job – either plays into that need or works against it.

So what your guy thinks being “The Man” means is a HUGE deal.

It either motivates him to be a good partner (because being a man means making your wife happy)…

Or it motivates him to be a bad partner (because making your wife happy is for simps and betas).

How Do You Know Which He Is?

For us, it’s not always easy to tell the difference.

You may meet a man who says all the right things, brings you gifts, shows you the amazing life you could have together…

So you jump into the relationship with both feet, certain you’ve got one of the good ones who’s devoted to pleasing you.

Then you’re together long enough (a few weeks, a few months, a few years)…

And he starts treating you like his maid.

You think he’s changed, but he hasn’t.

In his mind, he was being “The Man” by impressing you in the beginning.

Now that he’s got you, he’s being “The Man” by ordering you around and expecting you to wait on him.

He’s being consistent. He’s doing what he thinks he’s supposed to do as a man.

What If He Really Used to Be A Good Guy?

For some of you, though, your man has changed.

You met him when he believed being a man was being a stand-up guy his friends and family could rely on.

But then he listened to some extremist friends, or watched some dodgy online content, and he started believing that this version of masculinity was a scam.

He took the “red pill,” which is code for a conspiracy theory that claims men are the real victims of society, controlled by women and powerful elites.

Now your great guy is treating you in ways he’d never have dreamed of before.

Like you’re his enemy, when all you’ve ever done is try to love him.

What Do I Do?

I want to emphasize again:

It’s nothing you’ve done.

It’s how his thinking has changed.

If you love a man like this – who acts like it’s not his job to support you, like taking care of your needs is beneath him – there is a way to make your relationship work.

I don’t recommend it.

I’ve used it myself when I had no other choice.

It works so well it’s unbelievable, but at a huge personal cost.

It’s called the Submission Code, and I’ll share more soon.