In the 20th Century:
Appearance matters.
In the 21st Century:
Familiarity matters.
I can’t believe the wool has been pulled over our eyes for so long.
Look, attractive people are attractive, and that’s great. But it’s NOT a person’s looks that compels us to marry them.
It’s something far more profound:
It’s that feeling of recognition.
If you’re conventionally attractive, you know how much attention it gets you. You also know what a double-edged sword it is.
People are attracted to you, but they’re attracted to your looks. They may not even CARE about the real person inside.
This often results in a turbulent love life. Highly attractive people have less-satisfying marriages, and their marriages don’t tend to last as long.
If you want lasting love, you want a partner who is like you.
Someone with a similar sense of humor, who gets you, who likes the same things you like.
When you meet that kind of person, they will seem INCREDIBLY attractive in your eyes – even if no one else agrees!
So, if your goal is to meet that person you’ll spend the rest of your life with, stop worrying about how you look!
Focus on meeting people LIKE YOU. Find your tribe. Build deep connections.
And pity those “beautiful” women surrounded by guys who only want to sleep with them.
Questions to consider:
- Have all the men I’ve dated been conventionally attractive?
- What makes a man attractive to me?
- Is it possible that looks and attractiveness are two separate things?
P.S. Did you know you can boost your attractiveness naturally by just being happy?
Find out how to harness the power of attractive happiness to hook a man.
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