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By now, you know that a man’s childhood affects his relationship with you.
By the time he could walk, he already had a sense of whether it was safe to get emotionally close to his caregivers.
Even as a baby, he’d already developed strategies [Read more…] about Why Doesn’t He Even TRY to Be a Good Boyfriend?
Few of us get through life unscathed.
And the guy you care about has had bad things happen to him.
He’s been hurt, shamed, embarrassed, rejected…
And he’s stuffed those experiences deep down. [Read more…] about Why He Overreacts
By now, you know that a man’s early childhood shapes him in profound ways.
Not only does it set him up to find a specific type of woman attractive…
But it also shapes the issues he’ll struggle with for the rest of his life. [Read more…] about Is He Even Capable of Loving You?
Why does he act this way?
Why did he say that?
Why are men so confusing???
As women, we understand each other. We’re mind readers when it comes to our closest friends. [Read more…] about How to Understand Him
If you could peer into a crystal ball and look at relationships in the 2050s and beyond, what would you see?
Chances are, you’d see a world where fewer people are choosing to get married…
But those who DO choose to marry [Read more…] about The Future of Marriage
I’ve always wanted one of my books to be selected for a book club…
And recently I got my wish!
My friend Terah Harrison invited me to talk about Unleash Your Pleasure Power on her podcast, along with two special guests. [Read more…] about Unleash Your Pleasure Power Selected as Book Club Pick
When is the last time you enforced a boundary?
In other words…
You told someone that a certain behavior wasn’t okay. You explained what would happen if they did it again. They did it—AGAIN. You followed through. [Read more…] about Got Boundaries?
You know the Wall.
That’s when a man slams the door on you emotionally and acts like this relationship doesn’t even matter to him.
He acts like you’re at fault for everything going wrong in his life. He gets verbally aggressive with you. He stops playing nice. [Read more…] about Why Men Put Up Walls
Are you tired of ending up in relationships where you do all the work?
Tell me if this is familiar:
Both of you put in a long day’s work, but when you come home, you start in on the 1001 chores that need doing… [Read more…] about Stop Doing All the Work in Your Relationships
He means to make your life terrible.
He doesn’t care about you. If he did, he wouldn’t behave like that.
He’s so annoying.
And his family are all awful, too.
Why does he act this way? [Read more…] about Why He’s Such a Jerk
Boys don’t mature as fast as girls.
Just ask any preschool teacher. While girls are able to play nicely, sit quietly, and talk about their feelings, boys are hurtling around the room bashing each other with blocks. 😉
Fast-forward 20 years [Read more…] about Help Your Emotionally Immature Guy Grow into the Man of Your Dreams
How much is your guy like you?
Do you think alike?
Do you share the same beliefs, values, and preferences?
Do you think those similarities are the reason you get along so well? [Read more…] about Does Your Partner Have to Be a Perfect Match?
You’re out with a guy you really like, and your fun evening is quickly disintegrating into your worst nightmare.
He’s in a mood, and you don’t know why. He’s not really talking. He just sits there.
What do you do? [Read more…] about How to Cope with a Man’s Mood
The last few years have been so hard on all of us, and it’s been hard on our relationships.
In times like this, you get to see who’s really there for you.
Who’s picking up the phone and checking in and making sure you’re okay. [Read more…] about Yes, Relationships Can Make You Feel Lonely
How much would you be willing to change for the man you love?
If he says he loves it when women wear dresses, would you wear a dress?
If he says he spends his weekends hiking, would you match him step for step? [Read more…] about Would You Change for Him?
