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One falls in love, and then learns, for the duration, that one is at the mercy of someone else’s childhood.” – Hanif Kureishi
When you were growing up, did you have a caregiver who:
What if the biggest obstacle to happy relationships is not picking the right person…
But picking the right type of relationship?
A relationship custom-built to work with YOUR life. [Read more…] about Break the Relationship Script with Conscious Relationships | Janel Atlas
The opposite of love isn’t hate.
(Terry Real even coined a name for it: “normal marital hatred.” Of course you’re going to occasionally hate the person you’re spending the rest of your life with. Love and hate coexist.) [Read more…] about The Opposite of Love
Here’s how you scare men away in two easy steps:
Ouch – harsh, but true. [Read more…] about Scare Men Away in 2 Easy Steps
Men are great.
But life can feel a little bit easier when we have the ability to put them in a box.
When you’re love-centered, like so many of us are, you put your relationship at the center of your life. [Read more…] about If You’re Not His First Priority
We don’t talk enough about relationship stress.
We all know work is stressful, and life is stressful, but man…
The people we love are the most stressful of all.
So what can we do about it? [Read more…] about When Your Relationship Is Just So STRESSFUL
There’s something I’ve been hearing from a lot of women recently:
They’re done.
They’re done with struggling with the same old things.
[Read more…] about Quick “Man Reset” for Women Exhausted by Relationships
I used to teach the Submission Code.
Not that I realized it. I thought I was just teaching fundamental dating principles.
Ideas like: [Read more…] about The Submission Code: Why It Attracts Men (And Why I Quit)
Men today are being pulled in two opposing directions.
One direction tells them:
Be a man. Don’t let her manipulate you. Tell her what to do. [Read more…] about The ONE THING That Controls Every Man’s Behavior
A sea change is here, and some of you are already feeling it.
The way men treat women today is not the way men treated women, say, 30 years ago.
There’s more open disrespect. [Read more…] about No, Men Today Don’t Treat Women The Same
An article caught my eye the other day. It was on “5 Things Coaches Get Wrong About the Brain.”
One of them might shock you. It was the belief that people can change.
The author claimed that 10% of people (maybe as high as 20%) cannot change. [Read more…] about What If It’s Not That He WON’T Change… But He CAN’T?
What does your partner think when he looks at you?
It’s a simple but powerful question.
Because it reveals the subconscious truth about what you fear. [Read more…] about What He REALLY Sees When He Looks At You
I feel like I’ve got whiplash when I look at relationships today.
On the one hand, there are guys like my friend’s new partner.
He’s gorgeous, but that’s the least important part about him. [Read more…] about The 2 Types of Men You’ll Meet (One Will Break You)
On my birthday this year, I was gifted a beautiful teapot.
My friend told me that he thought we’d lost something by switching to mugs. The ceremony, the moment to breathe. [Read more…] about Does Your Guy Treat You Like A Teapot Or A Mug?
You know that electric feeling you get when someone looks at you like you’re the most interesting person in the room?
Most of us haven’t felt that in years… and it’s killing our relationships. [Read more…] about What Men Really Want From Women (It’s Not Your Body)
