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In the 20th Century:
Safety means making sure he’s not a serial killer or just wants to get in your pants.
In the 21st Century:
Safety means building trust, communication, boundaries, and accountability into your relationship. [Read more…] about From Serial Killers to Heartbreak: Rethinking Safety in Love
In the 20th Century:
Attractiveness is objective.
In the 21st Century:
Attraction is subjective.
Line up a group of men in a row. [Read more…] about We Are Most Attracted To People Who…
In the 20th Century:
Appearance matters.
In the 21st Century:
Familiarity matters.
I can’t believe the wool has been pulled over our eyes for so long. [Read more…] about Guys Just Care About Looks, Don’t They?
In the 19th Century:
Love comes to you.
In the 21st Century:
You go to love.
Up until about a hundred years ago, young women waited at home for love to come calling – quite literally! [Read more…] about What Flappers Can Teach You About Love
In the 20th Century:
Valentine’s Day celebrates couples.
In the 21st Century:
Valentine’s Day celebrates love.
I was a pimply awkward high schooler, and I was dreading the period before lunch. [Read more…] about I Didn’t Get A Single Rose 🌹😞
In the 20th Century:
Men are strong and silent.
In the 21st Century:
Men are sweet and sensitive.
My grandfather was a John Wayne superfan. [Read more…] about Just How Much Can You Expect from Him?
In the 20th Century:
The dating pool is a marketplace.
In the 21st Century:
The dating pool is an ocean.
Back in the day, dating was a marketplace, and everyone had a value. [Read more…] about Find Your Soulmate in a Sea of Men
In the 20th Century:
Sex is an expression of commitment.
In the 21st Century:
Sex is a test of chemistry.
One of the biggest changes women find when they go back into the dating scene [Read more…] about Guys Aren’t Interested If You Don’t Sleep with Them
In the 20th Century:
Avoid anyone with baggage.
In the 21st Century:
We ALL have baggage.
For a long time, the ideal was [Read more…] about Carry Your Baggage Lightly
In the 20th Century:
A catch is handsome, well-heeled, and romantic.
In the 21st Century:
A catch is emotionally intelligent, kind, and responsible. [Read more…] about Your New Dream Man
In the 20th Century:
A single woman couldn’t get a man to pick her.
In the 21st Century:
A single woman can pick who she wants.
Growing up, I was taught to feel pity for unmarried women. [Read more…] about Feeling Bad About Your Love Life? Not Any Longer!
In the 20th Century:
Finding a husband was every woman’s goal.
In the 21st Century:
Living a life she loves is every woman’s goal.
Spare a thought for the women who came before us. [Read more…] about Embrace Your Freedom to Love
Goal: The romantic relationship of your dreams
Obstacle: HIM!
Solution: Change him
That’s been the formula for hundreds of years. [Read more…] about Love Like It’s 2024
Will AI will ever replace real women? I posted that question on YouTube, and some men weighed in.
The majority thought it was heading that way.
One commenter even said:
A.I. will be the [girlfriend] that is there when you want and in the closet charging when you don’t need her.”
If you could have someone in your life who was always there for you…
Who listened patiently, remembered everything you told them, and always supported you… [Read more…] about Companionship Without the Work
