When I was younger, I thought there was an easy answer to the question of why guys weren’t interested in me.
It was because of how I looked.
I didn’t have the right body.
I didn’t have the right clothes. [Read more…] about The Bully Inside Your Head
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When I was younger, I thought there was an easy answer to the question of why guys weren’t interested in me.
It was because of how I looked.
I didn’t have the right body.
I didn’t have the right clothes. [Read more…] about The Bully Inside Your Head

I just discovered Aubrey Gordon.
And I love her.
Aubrey is a fat activist. She thinks we need to get more comfortable saying the word fat.
It’s just a descriptor. And she’s well aware that it accurately describes her. [Read more…] about #BrilliantBabe Aubrey Gordon Gets Real About Fat

We don’t talk enough about how brave it is to break up.
As a woman? Whom everyone will judge?
It takes courage to say, “I am not okay with how I am being treated in this relationship.” [Read more…] about The Bravery of Breaking Up

If there’s one thing we women do amazingly well…
It’s making a bad situation work.
No matter what we’re given, we can find a way. We can do a lot with very little. We just adjust our expectations and feel grateful for what we have. [Read more…] about When Is It Time to Walk Away?

Warning:
What you’re about to read is not pleasant. Continue reading only if you feel emotionally prepared.
Women have always wondered where all the good men have gone. [Read more…] about A Man’s Worst Nightmare

Do you ever let yourself down?
Do you ever react in ways that later embarrass you?
Do you ever want things you know you shouldn’t want?
Or do things you said you’d never do? [Read more…] about Meet Your Parts

Are there parts of your guy you don’t like?
Maybe you don’t like the way he acts when he’s frustrated and not getting his own way.
Maybe he acts like a completely different person around his guy friends or his family. [Read more…] about Dealing with The Sides of Him You Don’t Like

As a parent, I’m used to getting asked every question under the sun.
But one question I didn’t expect to be asked was how to flirt!
I would have DIED before asking my own mother how to flirt. [Read more…] about How to Flirt

Back in the 1920s, a group of young women formed an Anti-Flirt Club.
They were tired of getting ogled and catcalled by men on street corners.
They were tired of being offered “a lift” by motorists. [Read more…] about To Flirt… or Not To Flirt?

If you have a guy who shares his feelings and listens empathetically to yours, then you have hit the jackpot.
Emotional connection is the heart and soul of relationships. Sharing feelings brings us closer.
But what if you love a guy who bottles up his feelings? [Read more…] about What’s Up with Guys and Feelings?

Have you ever noticed that your guy seems to have one personality when he’s alone with you…
And a completely different personality when he’s out with his guy friends?
It’s almost as if he’s two different people. [Read more…] about Why Is He Different When He’s With His Guy Friends?

Love is supposed to be the easiest thing in the world.
Meet a man you like, fall in love together, live happily ever after. Just human nature, isn’t it?
<cue the hysterical laughter!!> [Read more…] about Afraid of Getting Into Another Bad Relationship?

Not all of us feel gung-ho about love.
Can I even say that? 😉
Despite the media and experts and influencers telling us that a man is the solution to every problem, we can see through the hype. [Read more…] about I Want Companionship But Not a Husband

Your goal is to find a man you click with.
Someone whose company you enjoy. Someone on your wavelength. Someone who likes what you like.
But there’s one situation where it’s impossible to click: [Read more…] about He Doesn’t Trust Women

Dating is in the process of a HUGE sea change.
For the past 100 years, dating ticked along nicely.
Everyone knew the game: men had to prove they had the resources to provide a good lifestyle [Read more…] about The New Rules of Dating