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Amy Waterman

Why Is My Boyfriend Mean to Me?

Have you ever been with a guy who’s turned on you and raged:

You did this! You did that! You’re such a you-know-what. I know who you really are, you [BLEEP].”

That’s a verbal attack. [Read more…] about Why Is My Boyfriend Mean to Me?

5 Signs He is NOT Your Soulmate

Back in my twenties, I was with a guy who wanted to get married, and I didn’t know what to do.

So I went around asking people [Read more…] about 5 Signs He is NOT Your Soulmate

How Trauma Sabotages Your Love Life & How to Heal

Here are some of the things I’ve been told about men:

Men don’t like needy women.

Men don’t like women who talk about their problems.

Men don’t like women who are an open book.

Men don’t like women who tell them how they feel. [Read more…] about How Trauma Sabotages Your Love Life & How to Heal

Stop Trying to Make Him Want You

“Send this text and he’ll immediately feel a rush of obsession for you.”

“Say this phrase and he won’t be able to stop thinking about you.”

Wouldn’t it be great if it were that easy?! [Read more…] about Stop Trying to Make Him Want You

Save Your Relationship… with PLEASURE

In all relationships, there’s a time when it stops being fun…

And you realize how many problems you have.

It feels like it’s over because you don’t enjoy each other anymore. [Read more…] about Save Your Relationship… with PLEASURE

Unleash the Sensual Goddess Within

When I ask you about your “parts down there”…

How do you react?

With a coy smile?

With an embarrassed flush? [Read more…] about Unleash the Sensual Goddess Within

He is Talking to Another Girl: What Should I Do?

You’ve just seen an exchange your guy had on social media with a woman you don’t know. She’s absolutely GORGEOUS, and the subtext is definitely flirty.

What do you do?

First of all, don’t panic! [Read more…] about He is Talking to Another Girl: What Should I Do?

Mental Health and Dating

May is Mental Health Month, and I can’t let it pass without talking about mental health and dating.

For anyone who’s struggling with feeling safe and okay in the world, it often feels like dating just makes everything worse.

Dating is hard enough as is. [Read more…] about Mental Health and Dating

How to Trust Men Again

When you have trusted someone…

You’ve laid your heart bare for them, you told them your secrets, you gave them the key to the locked door you never open for ANYONE…

You know what happens next. [Read more…] about How to Trust Men Again

Make a Great First Impression on a Date

Have you ever noticed how the instant you meet someone, you automatically know if there’s potential or not?

That’s the power of first impressions.

The first impression someone has of you is remarkably enduring AND remarkably accurate. [Read more…] about Make a Great First Impression on a Date

Why Men Lie

Of course men lie.

But here’s a news flash…

You do, too!

Before you jump all over me, let me ask you a question: [Read more…] about Why Men Lie

If You’re Feeling Unloved & Unlovable, Read This

Who was your very first love?

Do you remember?

Thinking about your first love can put such a smile on your face. 🙂

But actually your very first love is not who you think it is. [Read more…] about If You’re Feeling Unloved & Unlovable, Read This

The Pleasure Diet

I get so sick and tired of people obsessing about women’s bodies.

It seems like you can’t even glance at a health site without being bombarded with unwanted diet and weight loss advice.

Because healthy people are skinny people, right? Groan… You aren’t healthy unless you have six-pack abs, right? Sheesh!!! [Read more…] about The Pleasure Diet

He Doesn’t Love Me Back

I’m not sure anything can hurt more than this.

You’re giving the one thing you value most to this man—something you’ve saved, something that’s very precious to you, something that brings great joy and happiness—and he’s saying…

“Nope. Nah. Don’t want it.” [Read more…] about He Doesn’t Love Me Back