In the 20th Century:
You’re choosing a person.
In the 21st Century:
You’re choosing a life.
The stories of old told us this: [Read more…] about Choose Him, Choose Your Tomorrows
The Mysterious Ways of the Heart
Relationships
He’ll Leave If You Ask Too Much of Him (Won’t He?)
In the 20th Century:
Don’t ask too much of him.
In the 21st Century:
You don’t get if you don’t ask.
Men are busy – don’t bother them.” [Read more…] about He’ll Leave If You Ask Too Much of Him (Won’t He?)
The Best Friend Test
In the 20th Century:
You have a spouse and a best friend.
In the 21st Century:
Your spouse is your best friend.
My grandmother never would have called her husband her best friend. [Read more…] about The Best Friend Test
You Never Have To Be Lonely Again
In the 20th Century:
When we’re lonely and yearn for companionship, we long for love.
In the 21st Century:
When we’re lonely and yearn for companionship, we unlock our phone. [Read more…] about You Never Have To Be Lonely Again
What He Wants When He Wants a Relationship
In the 20th Century:
A relationship is a step on the road to marriage.
In the 21st Century:
A relationship is whatever you decide it is.
Not everyone wants the same thing from a relationship. [Read more…] about What He Wants When He Wants a Relationship
Is Your Relationship Helping You Grow Up?
In the 20th Century:
Marriage makes you an adult.
In the 21st Century:
Marriage can make you childish.
Marriage used to mark the transition between youth and adulthood. [Read more…] about Is Your Relationship Helping You Grow Up?
Where Is Your Love Taking You?
In the 20th Century:
A relationship tests your ability to build a life together.
In the 21st Century:
A relationship tests your ability to heal one another. [Read more…] about Where Is Your Love Taking You?
Is Your Relationship Built to Weather the Storm?
In the 20th Century:
You know you’re good together if you hardly ever fight.
In the 21st Century:
You know you’re good together if you can handle each other’s emotions. [Read more…] about Is Your Relationship Built to Weather the Storm?
Is Your Love Life Better When You’re Friends?
In the 20th Century:
The foundation of a strong sexual connection is polarity.
In the 21st Century:
The foundation of a strong sexual connection is friendship.
If you look for advice online on how to create chemistry, you’ll be served up a heaping helping of polarity. [Read more…] about Is Your Love Life Better When You’re Friends?
Say Something or Let It Go?
In the 20th Century:
If you love him, you’ll let it slide.
In the 21st Century:
If you love him, you’ll call him out on it.
Once upon a time, you did what you were told and didn’t complain. [Read more…] about Say Something or Let It Go?
Blaming Yourself for Bad Relationships is SO Last Century
In the 20th Century:
You’re in a bad relationship because you made a bad choice.
In the 21st Century:
You’re in a bad relationship because you’re working through your issues. [Read more…] about Blaming Yourself for Bad Relationships is SO Last Century
When You Need an Expert On Men, Do THIS
In the 20th Century:
If you don’t understand him, ask an expert on men.
In the 21st Century:
If you don’t understand him, ask him.
It’s one of the craziest things we do… [Read more…] about When You Need an Expert On Men, Do THIS
The Myth of the Easy-Going Girlfriend
In the 20th Century:
Life is full of things you don’t want to do. Get used to it.
In the 21st Century:
You always have options.
When you’re a kid, you don’t have much control over your life. [Read more…] about The Myth of the Easy-Going Girlfriend
The Secret to Keep Him from Straying is NOT…
In the 20th Century:
To keep him, you’ve got to be his fantasy in bed.
In the 21st Century:
To keep him, you’ve got to stay emotionally connected. [Read more…] about The Secret to Keep Him from Straying is NOT…
Your Priorities, Your Power
In the 20th Century:
He should be your #1 priority.
In the 21st Century:
Your priorities are your choice.
For hundreds of years, a woman’s future depended on her marriage. [Read more…] about Your Priorities, Your Power
