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Girls Just Wanna Be Loved

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In the 20th Century:
The goal is to be loved.

In the 21st Century:
The goal is to live a life of love.

Everyone wants to be loved. [Read more…] about Girls Just Wanna Be Loved

Is Your Love Life Better When You’re Friends?

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In the 20th Century:
The foundation of a strong sexual connection is polarity.

In the 21st Century:
The foundation of a strong sexual connection is friendship.

If you look for advice online on how to create chemistry, you’ll be served up a heaping helping of polarity. [Read more…] about Is Your Love Life Better When You’re Friends?

Better Body = Better in the Bedroom?

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In the 20th Century:
The better your body, the more fun you have in bed.

In the 21st Century:
The more you enjoy your body, the more fun you have in bed. [Read more…] about Better Body = Better in the Bedroom?

Do You Know Everything There Is to Know About Your Sexuality?

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In the 20th Century:
Desire is black and white.

In the 21st Century:
Desire is incredibly nuanced.

“Figuring out your sexuality” used to involve [Read more…] about Do You Know Everything There Is to Know About Your Sexuality?

How to Attract The Best Relationship Ever

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You now know the 3 secret keys to lifelong happiness in love.

But if you’re single, it begs the question…

How do you attract a man like that?

Where do you even find a man like that? [Read more…] about How to Attract The Best Relationship Ever

The New Rules of Dating

new rules of dating

Dating is in the process of a HUGE sea change.

For the past 100 years, dating ticked along nicely.

Everyone knew the game: men had to prove they had the resources to provide a good lifestyle [Read more…] about The New Rules of Dating

Want More Fun in the Bedroom? Have Him Do This

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It shouldn’t take a scientific study to tell us this:

When a woman feels like her partner is a big kid, she loses desire for him.

Losing desire is common in long-term relationships. [Read more…] about Want More Fun in the Bedroom? Have Him Do This

#BrilliantBabe: Barbie

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We’ve got to talk about Barbie.

By now, many of you will have seen the movie of the summer.

It made history by breaking the $1 billion mark just three weeks into its run.

Why is Barbie so popular? [Read more…] about #BrilliantBabe: Barbie

Why The Pleasure Fades in Relationships (And How to Get It Back)

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It’s easy to practice the Pleasure Principle in the early days of a relationship.

Those early days are all about pleasure.

Giving pleasure. Sharing pleasure. Overdosing on gorgeous pleasure. [Read more…] about Why The Pleasure Fades in Relationships (And How to Get It Back)

You’d Be A Great Wife Someday

great wife

Growing up, I knew what was expected of me.

I was supposed to get married, support my husband, and have children.

That was my job in life. That’s what productive citizens did. They settled down and had a family as soon as possible. [Read more…] about You’d Be A Great Wife Someday

Unleash Your Pleasure Power Selected as Book Club Pick

Unleash Your Pleasure Power

I’ve always wanted one of my books to be selected for a book club…

And recently I got my wish!

My friend Terah Harrison invited me to talk about Unleash Your Pleasure Power on her podcast, along with two special guests. [Read more…] about Unleash Your Pleasure Power Selected as Book Club Pick

How Female Desire is Different from Male Desire

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If you want to shame a woman, just make a critical comment about her libido.

We’re not supposed to want it too much or too little.

If we aren’t sexual enough, we’re frigid. If we’re TOO sexual, we’re sluts. [Read more…] about How Female Desire is Different from Male Desire

Understand Your Unique Flavor of Desire

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“Psst!”

I was walking down the hall in high school, just a shy freshman minding my own business, when a girl from my class beckoned to me.

She opened her locker and glanced around before letting me see inside. [Read more…] about Understand Your Unique Flavor of Desire

The Secret to Love in Real Life

secret to love in real life

I hope you’ve taken on board my message about radical self-care. Now it’s time to take things up a notch.

Today I want to talk about radical self-acceptance.

Radical self-care is the idea that you should treat yourself with the same loving kindness and care you treat others… [Read more…] about The Secret to Love in Real Life

She Met Her Future Husband in 3 Months By Doing This

radical self-care

Anne Lamott has some unusual dating advice.

About 6 years ago, she was overwhelmed. She was in her sixties, helping her son raise her grandson, and she was in full people-pleasing mode… [Read more…] about She Met Her Future Husband in 3 Months By Doing This

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