In the 20th Century:
The goal is to be loved.
In the 21st Century:
The goal is to live a life of love.
Everyone wants to be loved. [Read more…] about Girls Just Wanna Be Loved
Pleasure
A Juicier, Richer, More Vibrant Life
Is Your Love Life Better When You’re Friends?
In the 20th Century:
The foundation of a strong sexual connection is polarity.
In the 21st Century:
The foundation of a strong sexual connection is friendship.
If you look for advice online on how to create chemistry, you’ll be served up a heaping helping of polarity. [Read more…] about Is Your Love Life Better When You’re Friends?
Better Body = Better in the Bedroom?
In the 20th Century:
The better your body, the more fun you have in bed.
In the 21st Century:
The more you enjoy your body, the more fun you have in bed. [Read more…] about Better Body = Better in the Bedroom?
Do You Know Everything There Is to Know About Your Sexuality?
In the 20th Century:
Desire is black and white.
In the 21st Century:
Desire is incredibly nuanced.
“Figuring out your sexuality” used to involve [Read more…] about Do You Know Everything There Is to Know About Your Sexuality?
How to Attract The Best Relationship Ever
You now know the 3 secret keys to lifelong happiness in love.
But if you’re single, it begs the question…
How do you attract a man like that?
Where do you even find a man like that? [Read more…] about How to Attract The Best Relationship Ever
The New Rules of Dating
Dating is in the process of a HUGE sea change.
For the past 100 years, dating ticked along nicely.
Everyone knew the game: men had to prove they had the resources to provide a good lifestyle [Read more…] about The New Rules of Dating
Want More Fun in the Bedroom? Have Him Do This
It shouldn’t take a scientific study to tell us this:
When a woman feels like her partner is a big kid, she loses desire for him.
Losing desire is common in long-term relationships. [Read more…] about Want More Fun in the Bedroom? Have Him Do This
#BrilliantBabe: Barbie
We’ve got to talk about Barbie.
By now, many of you will have seen the movie of the summer.
It made history by breaking the $1 billion mark just three weeks into its run.
Why is Barbie so popular? [Read more…] about #BrilliantBabe: Barbie
Why The Pleasure Fades in Relationships (And How to Get It Back)
It’s easy to practice the Pleasure Principle in the early days of a relationship.
Those early days are all about pleasure.
Giving pleasure. Sharing pleasure. Overdosing on gorgeous pleasure. [Read more…] about Why The Pleasure Fades in Relationships (And How to Get It Back)
You’d Be A Great Wife Someday
Growing up, I knew what was expected of me.
I was supposed to get married, support my husband, and have children.
That was my job in life. That’s what productive citizens did. They settled down and had a family as soon as possible. [Read more…] about You’d Be A Great Wife Someday
Unleash Your Pleasure Power Selected as Book Club Pick
I’ve always wanted one of my books to be selected for a book club…
And recently I got my wish!
My friend Terah Harrison invited me to talk about Unleash Your Pleasure Power on her podcast, along with two special guests. [Read more…] about Unleash Your Pleasure Power Selected as Book Club Pick
How Female Desire is Different from Male Desire
If you want to shame a woman, just make a critical comment about her libido.
We’re not supposed to want it too much or too little.
If we aren’t sexual enough, we’re frigid. If we’re TOO sexual, we’re sluts. [Read more…] about How Female Desire is Different from Male Desire
Understand Your Unique Flavor of Desire
“Psst!”
I was walking down the hall in high school, just a shy freshman minding my own business, when a girl from my class beckoned to me.
She opened her locker and glanced around before letting me see inside. [Read more…] about Understand Your Unique Flavor of Desire
The Secret to Love in Real Life
In my last post I talked about radical self-care, and in this post I want to talk about radical self-acceptance.
Radical self-care is the idea that you should treat yourself with the same loving kindness and care you treat others. [Read more…] about The Secret to Love in Real Life
She Met Her Future Husband in 3 Months By Doing This
Anne Lamott has some unusual dating advice.
About 6 years ago, she was overwhelmed. She was in her sixties, helping her son raise her grandson, and she was in full people-pleasing mode… [Read more…] about She Met Her Future Husband in 3 Months By Doing This
