In the 20th Century:
You’re choosing a person.
In the 21st Century:
You’re choosing a life.
The stories of old told us this:
The hardest part is finding the right person and making them fall in love with you.
The easy part is living happily ever after.
But if the past has taught us anything, it’s that love is just a doorway. That doorway doesn’t always open into places you want to live.
Questions to consider:
- Do you want to live the same lifestyle your guy currently leads?
- If he never changed – if he always treated you this way, if he never grew into his potential, if the doubts and irritations you feel now never went away – would this be enough for you?
- Can you reject a life with someone while still loving them as a person?
Let us know what you think!