Do you have these three things in your life?
- Someone who is paying attention.
- Someone who will respond if you fall apart.
- A sense that you don’t have the manage the whole world on your own. [Read more…] about What Happens When You Fall Apart?
How to Find the One
Dating Advice
I Trained AI To Be My Love Coach (Here’s What It Found Out About Me)
Remember the days when you could actually get good advice on Google?
Now you just get generic lists or patronizing “do this” advice. Even the good information is getting drowned in a sea of copycat crap. [Read more…] about I Trained AI To Be My Love Coach (Here’s What It Found Out About Me)
The Boysober Trend
Ever heard of the term “boysober”?
It’s a hip way to talk about the choice to be celibate, and it’s a choice many young women feel is making them healthier.
They’re taking time for them. [Read more…] about The Boysober Trend
Is It Okay For Men To Have AI Girlfriends?
Are you upset that men have AI girlfriends?
Enough to take to YouTube and vent your outrage in a video?
No, I thought not. Me either.
But apparently a few female influencers are… [Read more…] about Is It Okay For Men To Have AI Girlfriends?
What Men Are Struggling With
Over the past year, I’ve spent so much time listening to the voices of men.
Finding out how they feel about love…
How they feel about women…
What they’re worried about…
What they wish for.
And you know what surprised me? [Read more…] about What Men Are Struggling With
Why Men Behave So Destructively in Relationships
As you now know, men are feelings-driven creatures. (Don’t let him convince you otherwise!)
But they don’t broadcast their feelings because they don’t want anyone to know.
They don’t want to feel ashamed, powerless, inferior, or afraid. [Read more…] about Why Men Behave So Destructively in Relationships
If Your Body Is A Book, What’s He Reading?
No matter how old you are, that fleeting sense of insecurity about how you look never quite goes away.
Even if it’s just checking yourself in the mirror one last time before leaving the house, you want to look good.
You want other people to think you look good. [Read more…] about If Your Body Is A Book, What’s He Reading?
5 Things Grown-Ups Know About Love
When you’re a grown woman, using the type of love advice that teenagers and thirsty 20-somethings use is humiliating.
You’re an adult. You don’t want to manipulate people.
You want something real. You don’t want to have to perform [Read more…] about 5 Things Grown-Ups Know About Love
Do You Have to Fix Yourself to Be Attractive
In the 20th Century:
Make yourself lovable.
In the 21st Century:
Remove all barriers to love.
I would like to apologize. [Read more…] about Do You Have to Fix Yourself to Be Attractive
Men Need to Chase – True or False?
If you’ve ever complained about the opposite sex being flaky, superficial, noncommittal, only interested in using you, then you need to read the previous two posts in this series.
You’ll learn the real problem isn’t men or women; it’s immaturity. [Read more…] about Men Need to Chase – True or False?
Stop Attracting Flaky, Immature Partners
So if you’re a woman who’s been complaining that guys today are flaky and superficial…
Or a guy who’s been saying that women today are flaky and superficial…
I’ve got a challenge for you. [Read more…] about Stop Attracting Flaky, Immature Partners
Women Are Done Dating. So Are Men. Now What?
Last summer I spent some months researching what men online were saying about love and relationships.
And the fact is…
A lot of men are opting out of the dating game because they just don’t think it’s worth the effort. [Read more…] about Women Are Done Dating. So Are Men. Now What?
Black Cat Energy Gone Wrong
Have you heard about “black cat energy”?
It’s all over the internet. Videos on this topic have been racking up hundreds of thousands of views.
It’s the idea that, as a woman, you should exude the same kind of energy as [Read more…] about Black Cat Energy Gone Wrong
How to Stay Smart (And Sane) When Texts Lie
As of 2025, you can no longer be sure he isn’t writing his texts without the help of AI. What does that mean for you?
It means you’ve got to adapt. Here are 3 good places to start. [Read more…] about How to Stay Smart (And Sane) When Texts Lie
Why You Might Never Trust a Love Text Again
A while back, a friend started texting me back differently.
Her replies to my texts didn’t sound like her. They were short and chipper—sometimes with emojis. She didn’t use emojis. What was going on? [Read more…] about Why You Might Never Trust a Love Text Again
