How to Find the One

Dating Advice

The Boysober Trend

Ever heard of the term “boysober”?

It’s a hip way to talk about the choice to be celibate, and it’s a choice many young women feel is making them healthier.

They’re taking time for them. [Read more…] about The Boysober Trend

Is It Okay For Men To Have AI Girlfriends?

Are you upset that men have AI girlfriends?

Enough to take to YouTube and vent your outrage in a video?

No, I thought not. Me either.

But apparently a few female influencers are…

And they’ve convinced men that women are rising up in outrage against men getting their emotional needs met by AI. [Read more…] about Is It Okay For Men To Have AI Girlfriends?

What Men Are Struggling With

Over the past year, I’ve spent so much time listening to the voices of men.

Finding out how they feel about love…
How they feel about women…
What they’re worried about…
What they wish for.

And you know what surprised me? [Read more…] about What Men Are Struggling With

Why Men Behave So Destructively in Relationships

As you now know, men are feelings-driven creatures. (Don’t let him convince you otherwise!)

But they don’t broadcast their feelings because they don’t want anyone to know.

They don’t want to feel ashamed, powerless, inferior, or afraid. [Read more…] about Why Men Behave So Destructively in Relationships

If Your Body Is A Book, What’s He Reading?

No matter how old you are, that fleeting sense of insecurity about how you look never quite goes away.

Even if it’s just checking yourself in the mirror one last time before leaving the house, you want to look good.

You want other people to think you look good. [Read more…] about If Your Body Is A Book, What’s He Reading?

5 Things Grown-Ups Know About Love

When you’re a grown woman, using the type of love advice that teenagers and thirsty 20-somethings use is humiliating.

You’re an adult. You don’t want to manipulate people.

You want something real. You don’t want to have to perform [Read more…] about 5 Things Grown-Ups Know About Love

Do You Have to Fix Yourself to Be Attractive

In the 20th Century:
Make yourself lovable.

In the 21st Century:
Remove all barriers to love.

I would like to apologize. [Read more…] about Do You Have to Fix Yourself to Be Attractive

Men Need to Chase – True or False?

If you’ve ever complained about the opposite sex being flaky, superficial, noncommittal, only interested in using you, then you need to read the previous two posts in this series.

You’ll learn the real problem isn’t men or women; it’s immaturity. [Read more…] about Men Need to Chase – True or False?

Stop Attracting Flaky, Immature Partners

So if you’re a woman who’s been complaining that guys today are flaky and superficial…

Or a guy who’s been saying that women today are flaky and superficial…

I’ve got a challenge for you. [Read more…] about Stop Attracting Flaky, Immature Partners

Women Are Done Dating. So Are Men. Now What?

Last summer I spent some months researching what men online were saying about love and relationships.

And the fact is…

A lot of men are opting out of the dating game because they just don’t think it’s worth the effort. [Read more…] about Women Are Done Dating. So Are Men. Now What?