In the 20th Century:
Attractiveness is objective.
In the 21st Century:
Attraction is subjective.
Line up a group of men in a row. [Read more…] about We Are Most Attracted To People Who…
The Art of Finding the Right Guy
Dating
Guys Just Care About Looks, Don’t They?
In the 20th Century:
Appearance matters.
In the 21st Century:
Familiarity matters.
I can’t believe the wool has been pulled over our eyes for so long. [Read more…] about Guys Just Care About Looks, Don’t They?
What Flappers Can Teach You About Love
In the 19th Century:
Love comes to you.
In the 21st Century:
You go to love.
Up until about a hundred years ago, young women waited at home for love to come calling – quite literally! [Read more…] about What Flappers Can Teach You About Love
I Didn’t Get A Single Rose 🌹😞
In the 20th Century:
Valentine’s Day celebrates couples.
In the 21st Century:
Valentine’s Day celebrates love.
I was a pimply awkward high schooler, and I was dreading the period before lunch. [Read more…] about I Didn’t Get A Single Rose 🌹😞
Just How Much Can You Expect from Him?
In the 20th Century:
Men are strong and silent.
In the 21st Century:
Men are sweet and sensitive.
My grandfather was a John Wayne superfan. [Read more…] about Just How Much Can You Expect from Him?
Find Your Soulmate in a Sea of Men
In the 20th Century:
The dating pool is a marketplace.
In the 21st Century:
The dating pool is an ocean.
Back in the day, dating was a marketplace, and everyone had a value. [Read more…] about Find Your Soulmate in a Sea of Men
Guys Aren’t Interested If You Don’t Sleep with Them
In the 20th Century:
Sex is an expression of commitment.
In the 21st Century:
Sex is a test of chemistry.
One of the biggest changes women find when they go back into the dating scene [Read more…] about Guys Aren’t Interested If You Don’t Sleep with Them
Carry Your Baggage Lightly
In the 20th Century:
Avoid anyone with baggage.
In the 21st Century:
We ALL have baggage.
For a long time, the ideal was [Read more…] about Carry Your Baggage Lightly
Your New Dream Man
In the 20th Century:
A catch is handsome, well-heeled, and romantic.
In the 21st Century:
A catch is emotionally intelligent, kind, and responsible. [Read more…] about Your New Dream Man
Boost Your Attractiveness 21st-Century-Style
In the 20th Century:
A woman’s job was to be feminine.
In the 21st Century:
A woman’s job is to be herself.
When I started my career in love advice back in 2005, it seemed so obvious… [Read more…] about Boost Your Attractiveness 21st-Century-Style
Feeling Bad About Your Love Life? Not Any Longer!
In the 20th Century:
A single woman couldn’t get a man to pick her.
In the 21st Century:
A single woman can pick who she wants.
Growing up, I was taught to feel pity for unmarried women. [Read more…] about Feeling Bad About Your Love Life? Not Any Longer!
Embrace Your Freedom to Love
In the 20th Century:
Finding a husband was every woman’s goal.
In the 21st Century:
Living a life she loves is every woman’s goal.
Spare a thought for the women who came before us. [Read more…] about Embrace Your Freedom to Love
Love Like It’s 2024
Goal: The romantic relationship of your dreams
Obstacle: HIM!
Solution: Change him
That’s been the formula for hundreds of years. [Read more…] about Love Like It’s 2024
The Men Who Prefer Robots to Real Women
Will AI will ever replace real women? I posted that question on YouTube, and some men weighed in.
The majority thought it was heading that way.
One commenter even said:
A.I. will be the [girlfriend] that is there when you want and in the closet charging when you don’t need her.”
Why AI Can’t Replace A Real Girlfriend
Once upon a time, guys had to put in effort to woo a woman.
Everything they wanted—a good job, respect in the community, a home of their own, an active sex life—depended on having a wife.
Not anymore. [Read more…] about Why AI Can’t Replace A Real Girlfriend
