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The Art of Finding the Right Guy

Dating

Be The Woman Who Truly “Gets” Him

be the one who truly gets him

In the 20th Century:
The best way to show him love is to do nice things for him.

In the 21st Century:
The best way to show him love is to understand him. [Read more…] about Be The Woman Who Truly “Gets” Him

The Experience He’s Seeking: Is It You?

the experience he's seeking

In the 20th Century:
He wants a catch.

In the 21st Century:
He wants someone who makes him feel alive.

Yes, you could be slim and gorgeous and accomplished and fascinating… [Read more…] about The Experience He’s Seeking: Is It You?

You Should Ask Him Lots of Questions, Right?

dating couple

In the 20th Century:
Interrogate.

In the 21st Century:
Invite.

If you want to get to know someone, what’s the first thing you do? [Read more…] about You Should Ask Him Lots of Questions, Right?

Don’t Impress Him, PLEASE

couple on a date

In the 20th Century:
Impress.

In the 21st Century:
Connect.

No wonder we get so nervous about meeting new people. [Read more…] about Don’t Impress Him, PLEASE

From Serial Killers to Heartbreak: Rethinking Safety in Love

couple smiling

In the 20th Century:
Safety means making sure he’s not a serial killer or just wants to get in your pants.

In the 21st Century:
Safety means building trust, communication, boundaries, and accountability into your relationship. [Read more…] about From Serial Killers to Heartbreak: Rethinking Safety in Love

We Are Most Attracted To People Who…

kissing couple

In the 20th Century:
Attractiveness is objective.

In the 21st Century:
Attraction is subjective.

Line up a group of men in a row. [Read more…] about We Are Most Attracted To People Who…

Guys Just Care About Looks, Don’t They?

loving couple

In the 20th Century:
Appearance matters.

In the 21st Century:
Familiarity matters.

I can’t believe the wool has been pulled over our eyes for so long. [Read more…] about Guys Just Care About Looks, Don’t They?

What Flappers Can Teach You About Love

flapper

In the 19th Century:
Love comes to you.

In the 21st Century:
You go to love.

Up until about a hundred years ago, young women waited at home for love to come calling – quite literally! [Read more…] about What Flappers Can Teach You About Love

I Didn’t Get A Single Rose 🌹😞

roses

In the 20th Century:
Valentine’s Day celebrates couples.

In the 21st Century:
Valentine’s Day celebrates love.

I was a pimply awkward high schooler, and I was dreading the period before lunch. [Read more…] about I Didn’t Get A Single Rose 🌹😞

Just How Much Can You Expect from Him?

John Wayne

In the 20th Century:
Men are strong and silent.

In the 21st Century:
Men are sweet and sensitive.

My grandfather was a John Wayne superfan. [Read more…] about Just How Much Can You Expect from Him?

Find Your Soulmate in a Sea of Men

dating pool

In the 20th Century:
The dating pool is a marketplace.

In the 21st Century:
The dating pool is an ocean.

Back in the day, dating was a marketplace, and everyone had a value. [Read more…] about Find Your Soulmate in a Sea of Men

Guys Aren’t Interested If You Don’t Sleep with Them

chemistry test

In the 20th Century:
Sex is an expression of commitment.

In the 21st Century:
Sex is a test of chemistry.

One of the biggest changes women find when they go back into the dating scene [Read more…] about Guys Aren’t Interested If You Don’t Sleep with Them

Carry Your Baggage Lightly

woman carrying many bags

In the 20th Century:
Avoid anyone with baggage.

In the 21st Century:
We ALL have baggage.

For a long time, the ideal was [Read more…] about Carry Your Baggage Lightly

Your New Dream Man

single men

In the 20th Century:
A catch is handsome, well-heeled, and romantic.

In the 21st Century:
A catch is emotionally intelligent, kind, and responsible. [Read more…] about Your New Dream Man

Boost Your Attractiveness 21st-Century-Style

unconventionally attractive woman

In the 20th Century:
A woman’s job was to be feminine.

In the 21st Century:
A woman’s job is to be herself.

When I started my career in love advice back in 2005, it seemed so obvious… [Read more…] about Boost Your Attractiveness 21st-Century-Style

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