Your Brilliance Expert Author

Amy Waterman

Amy Waterman, M.A., is a Love Educator, Pleasure Revolutionary, author, and founder of Your Brilliance. Over the past two decades, she’s helped tens of thousands of women stop pleasing men, start pleasing themselves, and live their most brilliant life. Her books include The Pleasure Principle, Sanctuary Signals, Unleash Your Pleasure Power, Effortlessly Likable, Your Instant Love Coach, and Time to Slim.

I used to teach the Submission Code.

Not that I realized it. I thought I was just teaching fundamental dating principles.

Men today are being pulled in two opposing directions.

One direction tells them:

A sea change is here, and some of you are already feeling it.

The way men treat women today is not the way men treated women, say, 30 years ago.

An article caught my eye the other day. It was on “5 Things Coaches Get Wrong About the Brain.”

One of them might shock you. It was the belief that people can change.

What does your partner think when he looks at you?

It’s a simple but powerful question.

Because it reveals the subconscious truth about what you fear. [Read more…] about What He REALLY Sees When He Looks At You

I feel like I’ve got whiplash when I look at relationships today.

On the one hand, there are guys like my friend’s new partner.

Remember the days when you could actually get good advice on Google?

Now you just get generic lists or patronizing “do this” advice. Even the good information is getting drowned in a sea of copycat crap. [Read more…] about I Trained AI To Be My Love Coach (Here’s What It Found Out About Me)

On my birthday this year, I was gifted a beautiful teapot.

My friend told me that he thought we’d lost something by switching to mugs. The ceremony, the moment to breathe. [Read more…] about Does Your Guy Treat You Like A Teapot Or A Mug?

You know that electric feeling you get when someone looks at you like you’re the most interesting person in the room?

Most of us haven’t felt that in years… and it’s killing our relationships. [Read more…] about What Men Really Want From Women (It’s Not Your Body)

Even the man you love might not trust you.

That’s hard to hear.

Because you know you’re trustworthy. You know how hard you work to make sure he can lean on you, rely on you for the little things, and never doubt your commitment. [Read more…] about The Truth About Trust No One Tells You in Relationships

Why does falling hard for a man almost guarantee he’ll pull away from you?

Apparently, according to the internet , it’s because men need to chase. They need to believe they’re the one going after you. [Read more…] about When Liking Him Too Much Backfires