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Amy Waterman

Amy Waterman, M.A., is a Love Educator, Pleasure Revolutionary, and Author dedicated to helping women live their most brilliant life. Her work has appeared in over a dozen online courses, including The Pleasure Principle, Effortlessly Likable, Unleash Your Pleasure Power, and The Pleasure Diet.

What’s the most awful, horrific thing that’s happened to you in relationships?

For me, it was experiencing the sheer hatred of a man who, once he no longer had me, desired to destroy me.

It’s happened to me more than once over my life. It always catches me off guard. [Read more…] about Let Go of Past Pain

There’s something else Mat Shaffer says in our interview that I think is helpful:

Our relationships are a mirror “for where we are at in our own journey within ourselves.”

If you’re having beautiful, healthy relationships, that’s great news! [Read more…] about Why He Doesn’t Treat You Well

Here’s something I didn’t understand back in my twenties:

You attract who you are.

Not what you WANT, but who you ARE.

In the 20th Century:
If a guy says he’s open to a relationship, he’s open to a relationship.

In the 21st Century:
His behavior will show you if he’s open to a relationship. [Read more…] about Is He a Dater or a Relater?

In the 20th Century:
Be more attractive to men.

In the 21st Century:
Practice the hard skills of loving.

In the 20th Century:
You deserve your own happy-ever-after.

In the 21st Century:
You have free will to make choices.

Back in the early days of my career, I used to reassure people: [Read more…] about You’ll End Up Married, Won’t You?

In the 20th Century:
Forgive & forget.

In the 21st Century:
Fix it.

In the 20th Century:
It’s your responsibility to be attractive.

In the 21st Century:
It’s your “responsibility” to be attractive. (Airquotes intended.) [Read more…] about What’s Wrong With You??

In the 20th Century:
Men are only attracted to women living their best life.

In the 21st Century:
Your best life may not leave you with room for anyone else.

I came of age in the 1990s, and all the women’s magazines I devoured told me the same thing: [Read more…] about Rethinking “Living Your Best Life”

In the 20th Century:
The best way to show him love is to do nice things for him.

In the 21st Century:
The best way to show him love is to understand him. [Read more…] about Be The Woman Who Truly “Gets” Him

In the 20th Century:
Men fall out of love because they stop finding their partner attractive.

In the 21st Century:
Men fall out of love because they don’t want to be a disappointment. [Read more…] about Surprising Reason Men Fall Out of Love

In the 20th Century:
If you do the right thing, everything will be all right.

In the 21st Century:
All you can do is make healthy choices for yourself and the relationship. [Read more…] about Older, Wiser, and Readier for Lasting Love