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Amy Waterman

About Amy Waterman

Amy Waterman, M.A., is a Love Educator, Pleasure Revolutionary, and Author dedicated to helping women live their most brilliant life. Her work has appeared in over a dozen online courses, including The Pleasure Principle, Effortlessly Likable, Unleash Your Pleasure Power, and The Pleasure Diet.

How to Stay Smart (And Sane) When Texts Lie

when texts lie

As of 2025, you can no longer be sure he isn’t writing his texts without the help of AI. What does that mean for you?

It means you’ve got to adapt. Here are 3 good places to start. [Read more…] about How to Stay Smart (And Sane) When Texts Lie

Why You Might Never Trust a Love Text Again

love text

A while back, a friend started texting me back differently.

Her replies to my texts didn’t sound like her. They were short and chipper—sometimes with emojis. She didn’t use emojis. What was going on? [Read more…] about Why You Might Never Trust a Love Text Again

Does He Know You Better Than You Know Yourself?

cold reading

When I first came on the scene 20 years ago, men were already teaching each other a clever way to attract women:

Just use psychology to tell her things about herself.

Surprise her with these pseudo “deep insights” that amaze her with their accuracy [Read more…] about Does He Know You Better Than You Know Yourself?

Before You Offer Him A Shoulder To Cry On…

first date therapist

I caught up with the mother of one of my high school classmates the other day.

She told me that my friend was doing great. Still single! Had her own business. Did her own thing. Was fed up with men after a slew of bad dates. [Read more…] about Before You Offer Him A Shoulder To Cry On…

The Body Test

woman texting

Tough Truth:
Hiding how you look won’t make him fall in love with you.
Lead with your beautiful body—let it filter out the wrong men.

Women who aren’t body confident often make one terrible mistake: [Read more…] about The Body Test

Stop Impressing Men

have fun dating

Tough truth:
Impressing him won’t make him love you.
Having fun together is what makes him want to see more of you.

The “catch” model of dating is outdated. [Read more…] about Stop Impressing Men

Don’t Mistake The High for Love

love goggles

Tough truth:
We blame men for breaking our hearts.
But sometimes we break our own hearts.
We mistake the high for love.

You know the high I mean: [Read more…] about Don’t Mistake The High for Love

What if He’s Not Making A Move… On Purpose?

not making a move

In my last post, I shared why I’m a fan of the Slow Burn.

There’s something delicious about drawing out the romantic tension over weeks and months. [Read more…] about What if He’s Not Making A Move… On Purpose?

Fast Spark or Slow Burn? Here’s What Works

slow burn

When a new relationship begins, there are two ways it can go.

The first is the fast path.

You meet someone. There’s instant chemistry. You fall into bed, and the sparks determine whether you keep seeing each other. [Read more…] about Fast Spark or Slow Burn? Here’s What Works

Watch Out For Dangerous Love Advice

dangerous love advice

I’m not courting controversy, but I really believe this:

Much of the dating and relationship advice out there is actually dangerous.

That’s a strong word, but it’s the right one.

It’s designed to make you appeal to the type of men most likely to take advantage of you. [Read more…] about Watch Out For Dangerous Love Advice

Can You Love Each Other & Still Hate Each Other Sometimes?

can you love and hate each other?

It’s scary to consider the idea that love may not be the main emotion at play in your relationship.

You need to believe your partner loves you. Questioning that—even for a moment—can feel catastrophic. [Read more…] about Can You Love Each Other & Still Hate Each Other Sometimes?

Look For This Clue to How He Feels

how he feels

Do you think it’s possible for a man to love you a lot and just never show it?

Do you think it’s possible for a man to be totally selfish and still love you?

Do you think it’s possible for a man to be incredibly hurtful and still love you? [Read more…] about Look For This Clue to How He Feels

His Love Capacity

love capacity

I feel a bit cringe when I write anything about “How to Make a Man Love You More.”

Because there’s something important I’m leaving out.

You CAN’T make some men love you more. [Read more…] about His Love Capacity

Difficult Relationships With Difficult Men Part III

need to talk

I wish someone had taught me what I’m teaching you now.

Twenty years ago, I didn’t know how to fix a relationship or how to end it. I’d let things get so bad he’d break up with me.🤦‍♀️

Bad boyfriends broke me, but they also taught me the need to grow a backbone. [Read more…] about Difficult Relationships With Difficult Men Part III

Difficult Relationship With Difficult Men Part II

what would make you leave him

When you’re in a difficult relationship, you just want him to change.

But he’s so stubborn. He refuses to change his hurtful behaviors or get any help.

And why should he? [Read more…] about Difficult Relationship With Difficult Men Part II

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