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No matter how old you are, that fleeting sense of insecurity about how you look never quite goes away.
Even if it’s just checking yourself in the mirror one last time before leaving the house, you want to look good.
You want other people to think you look good.
You want men to think you look good. 😉 [Read more…] about If Your Body Is A Book, What’s He Reading?
Tell me 3 reasons you don’t feel attractive.
Nearly all of us have times when we don’t feel attractive. [Read more…] about Men Struggle When Women Feel This Way
When you’re a grown woman, using the type of love advice that teenagers and thirsty 20-somethings use is humiliating.
You’re an adult. You don’t want to manipulate people.
You want something real. You don’t want to have to perform [Read more…] about 5 Things Grown-Ups Know About Love
Every single one of us needs boundaries.
These are the limits to how people can treat us.
If someone crosses one of our boundaries, we warn them. If they persist, we take action. [Read more…] about Examples of Boundaries
Are you in a relationship where your guy always has to win?
So there’s this idea that women are the ones with all the feelings, not men.
Women cry. Men fix.
Women feel. Men think.
Women are emotional and expressive. Men are logical and stoic. [Read more…] about Are Men Less Emotional? Neuroscience Says No
In the 20th Century:
Get a bikini body.
In the 21st Century:
Get a bikini.
For all the problems in the world today, there are so many things I love. [Read more…] about Just Wear the Bikini
In the 20th Century:
Make yourself lovable.
In the 21st Century:
Remove all barriers to love.
I would like to apologize. [Read more…] about Do You Have to Fix Yourself to Be Attractive
If you’ve ever complained about the opposite sex being flaky, superficial, noncommittal, only interested in using you, then you need to read the previous two posts in this series.
You’ll learn the real problem isn’t men or women; it’s immaturity. [Read more…] about Men Need to Chase – True or False?
So if you’re a woman who’s been complaining that guys today are flaky and superficial…
Or a guy who’s been saying that women today are flaky and superficial…
I’ve got a challenge for you. [Read more…] about Stop Attracting Flaky, Immature Partners
Last summer I spent some months researching what men online were saying about love and relationships.
And the fact is…
A lot of men are opting out of the dating game because they just don’t think it’s worth the effort. [Read more…] about Women Are Done Dating. So Are Men. Now What?
Have you heard about “black cat energy”?
It’s all over the internet. Videos on this topic have been racking up hundreds of thousands of views.
It’s the idea that, as a woman, you should exude the same kind of energy as [Read more…] about Black Cat Energy Gone Wrong
There’s plenty of advice out there on how to drag a man across the Gap.
You have to inspire his devotion. You’ve got to enchant him.
You have to help him through his bonding stages. [Read more…] about Is He Chasing Thrills… Or Choosing You?
What is the Gap?
It’s the dark, yawning space between the rush of new romance and the reality of building a life together.
It’s the chasm between fun and forever. Between dopamine and devotion.
And if you can’t cross it, the relationship never makes it. [Read more…] about Watch Out For The “Gap” Between Fun and Forever
As of 2025, you can no longer be sure he isn’t writing his texts without the help of AI. What does that mean for you?
It means you’ve got to adapt. Here are 3 good places to start. [Read more…] about How to Stay Smart (And Sane) When Texts Lie
