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A woman told me something that stopped me cold.
Her boyfriend had gotten angry and attempted to assert control over an area of her life.
She knew he had no right to do that. But, she said… (and this was the red flag): [Read more…] about “He Makes Me Feel Bad About Myself”
We’re still paying the price for the bad advice men have been given.
By telling men they could take dominance as a shortcut to masculinity, we ended up with a bunch of man-boys.
They felt like men by bossing women around. [Read more…] about The Lie That Created a Generation of Man-Boys
The more your guy has to be “The Man,” the less he’s capable of loving you.
And I know how hard that is to hear.
Because manly men are so darn attractive. They make you go all gooey inside. [Read more…] about He Can’t Love You – Here’s Why
For hundreds of years, relationship advice has told women that it’s up to them.
The man only has two jobs:
(1) Choose the woman he wants to be with, and
2) Go to work each day to financially provide. [Read more…] about When You’re Lonely (Even Though He’s Right Beside You)
Here’s a bit of research that just came out:
When we’re under stress or feeling vulnerable, we’re more likely to choose dominant, overconfident partners.
And guess what kind of men tend to be dominant and overconfident? [Read more…] about Why Stressed Women Fall for Narcissists (And How to Stop)
Two years ago, I made a couple of videos on AI girlfriend apps.
My goal was to show their limitations. Technology can’t replace romantic partners. Human beings need other human beings to regulate their nervous system. [Read more…] about Women Are Replacing Men With AI
Why does your guy spend so much time and energy on everything BUT his relationship with you?
The vast majority of dating advice boils down to one thing:
Attraction.
If you’re attractive – if you know “how to attract men” – you’ll overflow with dating options and end up with the man of your dreams.
Except for one teeny tiny little problem… [Read more…] about What Makes Him Commit
There was a devastating article in The Guardian recently, written by a teenage girl.
She wanted us to know what kinds of things she was experiencing online.
She explained about the videos, posts, and comments that showed up in her feed talking about “females.” [Read more…] about Does He Express Contempt Towards Women?
Let’s kick off the week with an in-your-face question:
“If I really believed in myself, what would I be doing differently?”
This question hits me hard. [Read more…] about What Should You Be Doing Differently?
One falls in love, and then learns, for the duration, that one is at the mercy of someone else’s childhood.” – Hanif Kureishi
When you were growing up, did you have a caregiver who: [Read more…] about You’re At The Mercy of His Childhood
Do you have these three things in your life?
The opposite of love isn’t hate.
(Terry Real even coined a name for it: “normal marital hatred.” Of course you’re going to occasionally hate the person you’re spending the rest of your life with. Love and hate coexist.) [Read more…] about The Opposite of Love
Here’s how you scare men away in two easy steps:
Ouch – harsh, but true. [Read more…] about Scare Men Away in 2 Easy Steps
Men are great.
But life can feel a little bit easier when we have the ability to put them in a box.
When you’re love-centered, like so many of us are, you put your relationship at the center of your life. [Read more…] about If You’re Not His First Priority
