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Amy Waterman

About Amy Waterman

Amy Waterman, M.A., is a Love Educator, Pleasure Revolutionary, and Author dedicated to helping women live their most brilliant life. Her work has appeared in over a dozen online courses, including The Pleasure Principle, Effortlessly Likable, Unleash Your Pleasure Power, and The Pleasure Diet.

Just Wear the Bikini

In the 20th Century:
Get a bikini body.

In the 21st Century:
Get a bikini.

For all the problems in the world today, there are so many things I love. [Read more…] about Just Wear the Bikini

Do You Have to Fix Yourself to Be Attractive

In the 20th Century:
Make yourself lovable.

In the 21st Century:
Remove all barriers to love.

I would like to apologize. [Read more…] about Do You Have to Fix Yourself to Be Attractive

Men Need to Chase – True or False?

If you’ve ever complained about the opposite sex being flaky, superficial, noncommittal, only interested in using you, then you need to read the previous two posts in this series.

You’ll learn the real problem isn’t men or women; it’s immaturity. [Read more…] about Men Need to Chase – True or False?

Stop Attracting Flaky, Immature Partners

So if you’re a woman who’s been complaining that guys today are flaky and superficial…

Or a guy who’s been saying that women today are flaky and superficial…

I’ve got a challenge for you. [Read more…] about Stop Attracting Flaky, Immature Partners

Women Are Done Dating. So Are Men. Now What?

Last summer I spent some months researching what men online were saying about love and relationships.

And the fact is…

A lot of men are opting out of the dating game because they just don’t think it’s worth the effort. [Read more…] about Women Are Done Dating. So Are Men. Now What?

Black Cat Energy Gone Wrong

Have you heard about “black cat energy”?

It’s all over the internet. Videos on this topic have been racking up hundreds of thousands of views.

It’s the idea that, as a woman, you should exude the same kind of energy as [Read more…] about Black Cat Energy Gone Wrong

Is He Chasing Thrills… Or Choosing You?

There’s plenty of advice out there on how to drag a man across the Gap.

You have to inspire his devotion. You’ve got to enchant him.

You have to help him through his bonding stages. [Read more…] about Is He Chasing Thrills… Or Choosing You?

Watch Out For The “Gap” Between Fun and Forever

What is the Gap?

It’s the dark, yawning space between the rush of new romance and the reality of building a life together.

It’s the chasm between fun and forever. Between dopamine and devotion.

And if you can’t cross it, the relationship never makes it. [Read more…] about Watch Out For The “Gap” Between Fun and Forever

How to Stay Smart (And Sane) When Texts Lie

As of 2025, you can no longer be sure he isn’t writing his texts without the help of AI. What does that mean for you?

It means you’ve got to adapt. Here are 3 good places to start. [Read more…] about How to Stay Smart (And Sane) When Texts Lie

Why You Might Never Trust a Love Text Again

A while back, a friend started texting me back differently.

Her replies to my texts didn’t sound like her. They were short and chipper—sometimes with emojis. She didn’t use emojis. What was going on? [Read more…] about Why You Might Never Trust a Love Text Again